My New Plan

When I originally started this blog, back in March 2021, I thought that it would be helpful for me to reflect and perhaps write about what I was going through after Rob died. However, I hit a patch where I did not necessarily feel like reflecting so I left the blog. I sometimes post little anecdotes on social media or share stories in personal messages to friends, just as a way to chronicle, and not forget, what has been happening. I strongly suspect that I will look back on this year and it will be a little hazy. But I do want to remember that it was not all bad! There are lots of smiles and laughs peppered in with the sad and reflective time and it is important to keep that in mind as I move forward.

My new found friend, Shannon Fanjoy, is often the recipient of the dog tales that happen here. She suggested that I continue the blog – not necessarily to reflect and self-counsel but to share humorous anecdotes of The Life of Pam. We were talking about it today and I truly assumed that everyone’s life was made up of the same type of moments, and at the same frequency, as my life but she assured me that is not the case and that I should share my stories!

I am looking forward to sitting down on a more regular basis and sharing some of what has been happening to me in my “life after Rob”. There are definitely some stories that will make you smile, or even laugh out loud!

So, here I go! Maybe this blog will, some day, turn into something more substantial but for now, it is just a means for me to focus some creative energy and have something to do that is NOT work related!

So sit back, enjoy and feel free to comment! Thank you for joining me on my journey!

Published by Pam Fanjoy

I am just like you! A regular woman who went to work Monday to Friday, came home and did all that stuff that we all do - raised my kids, played with my dogs, worked around the house and spent time with my husband. Like most of us, I feel like I took that relationship for granted. I knew I was lucky but I didn't know HOW lucky - until January 26, 2021. The day that Rob passed away. As a way to work through this really crappy, unfair time, I thought I would start a blog. Not to whine and complain but to document those times AND the good ones! Because there ARE good times as well!

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